Alright, let’s get real for a second. You want him to think about you constantly, replaying your texts in his head like a Spotify playlist on repeat.
But here’s the secret sauce—not making it too easy! The key? A mix of mystery, charm, and undeniable YOU energy.
Here are fun tips to make him miss you all the time!
1. Give Him Space (and Enjoy Yours)
Here’s the deal, queen. Clinginess? Not cute. Confidence? SUPER cute. While giving him space, use the time to prioritize yourself.
Go out with the girls, hit the gym, chase those career goals, pick up a hobby, or binge-watch that Netflix series. You’re a whole vibe.
The more vibrant your life is, the more he’s going to wonder why he’s not included in it. Nothing says “I have standards” and “I don’t chase; I attract” like being a busy, independent woman.
2. Flirt Randomly, but Don’t Overdo It
Drop a cute, flirty text every once in a while. Think of it like seasoning a dish—not too bland, not too much.
A simple “I just thought about how cute you looked in that blue shirt the other day” can go a long way.
Or, “I thought of you when I saw this meme today… but don’t get too excited. 😉”
Keep it lighthearted and not too desperate. Not only does it make him smile, but it’s also subtly reminding him of how great you are (because, uh, duh).
3. Send Him Little Reminders
Now, i’m not saying drop a million selfies into his messages, but a well-timed photo? Game-changer.
Bonus points if you’re doing something you both loved, like grabbing coffee from “your” place or listening to that song you both resonate with. Trust me, that kind of stuff hits hard.
4. Don’t Share Every Detail
Mystery is alluring, babe. You don’t need to tell him what color socks you’re wearing or give him a play-by-play of your day.
Leave some room for him to ask questions. Instead of saying, “I’m heading to lunch with Sarah at that cafe on Main Street,” try, “Headed somewhere fun today!” Watch his curiosity spike.
5. Post Strategically (Not Excessively)
Social media is your secret weapon, hehe. Post that stunning beach pic, share that story of you and your bestie laughing until your sides hurt, or that quick boomerang of your morning coffee.
Post randomly about things you’re doing today instead of just missing him. Working? Buying yourself flowers? Shopping? Whatever!
Keep it fun and light, but don’t overdo it. Posting too much can make you seem try-hard, and we’re about effortless charm, not Wallpaper Content Overload 101.
6. Leave Behind a Personal Touch
If you’ve met, this one’s a classic. Leave something sweet and personal behind, like your bracelet, a cute note, or a subtle hint of your perfume lingering on his hoodie.
Trust me, when he comes across it, the flood of good vibes will keep you on his mind.
Example: Once I was at his place and he was sleeping while I grabbed his phone, and wrote a beuatiful little letter in his Notes app for him to see later.
You can find your way of doing stuff like this 😉
7. Compliments Are Your Secret Weapon
Who doesn’t love feeling good about themselves? Drop a casual compliment like, “I still can’t get over how good you looked in that blazer,” or “You’re so good at making people laugh!“
It’s subtle, sweet, and shows you notice the little things while leaving him wanting more.
8. Surprise Him with Something Thoughtful
Want to hit him right in the feels? Send him a thoughtful surprise, like his favorite chocolates, a book he’s been wanting to read, or even tacos (no one can resist tacos).
A simple “I thought you’d enjoy this!” or “I thought you’d be hungry” lets him know you care and that he’s on your mind.
9. Don’t Always Be Available
Here’s the deal. If you’re constantly texting or saying “yes” to every plan, where’s the space for him to miss you? It’s not about playing games, but about creating a bit of breathing room.
When you give him some space, he’ll start to notice the time you’re not there…and he’ll want you around even more.
Quick tip: The next time he texts, resist the urge to reply in 0.5 seconds. It’s OK to not be available for a movie night every weekend. Make plans of your own, and trust me, he’ll start wondering what you’re up to.
10. Master the Art of Mystery
You don’t need to spill all the juicy details about your life in one go. Leave a little intrigue! Mystery is a powerful thing. If he doesn’t know what’s coming next, you’ll stay on his mind a whole lot longer.
Example: Instead of telling him every tiny bit about your weekend plans, drop hints like, “I had the best Saturday! Can’t wait to tell you about it.” Boom. Now he’s curious.
11. Give Him Something to Miss
The truth? If you want him to miss you, give him memories he can’t stop thinking about. Whether it’s that amazing day you grabbed ice cream together or the way you made him laugh over something silly, moments like these are what stick.
Be someone who brings joy and positive energy into his life, and he’ll be counting the days until he sees you again.
Pro tip: It’s not about grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s as simple as making him laugh during a bad day or recommending his now-favorite Spotify playlist.
12. Patience is Key
Real talk? Making someone miss you isn’t about rushing into things. Sometimes, letting things happen naturally is the best approach.
Keep things fun, light, and engaging, and watch as the memories you create linger in his mind.
