If you want to make a man want you bad, you better put your A-game forward with these sneaky tips and tricks!
How many of us want to make a man crave us like a cheeseburger and fries? We all do, right?
Which woman doesn’t love a line of boys chasing her like mad dogs? If you don’t want a line, you probably want one single man to be head-over-heels in love with you. Tell me if I’m wrong 😉
How to make men go crazy for you is the hottest topic my friends and I cannot get enough about. We want him to want us badly. We want him to look at us, talk about us, and cannot see anything except us when we enter the room, don’t we?
But how do we do that?
Let me start by saying that there’s no need to resort to cheesy pickup lines or games to make a man want you bad. Ya, it can make him laugh once in a while but do you really think you can throw a pickup line at him every day, and he’ll go crazy about you?
And It’s not even about turning yourself into something that you’re not. It’s about using the qualities that you already have to your advantage. In fact, there are plenty of simple and natural methods that will work to get your man hooked on you. And I mean hooooooooked!
Here are 19 easy ways to get him intrigued and ready to pounce on you like a lion in heat. Get ready to be the envy of your girlfriends because these tips will work wonders!
how to make a man want you bad
1. Understand Him like no other
There are a few things that all men secretly want. And if you can give it to them, you know they’ll be hooked on you for life. However, when it comes to knowing what men want, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every guy is different, and each one will be intrigued by different things.
So how do you make him insanely into you?
You need to understand what makes him tick and the things he finds irresistible. What turns him on? What gets him excited? What makes him feel good? Where does he like going? What he wanna do, like camping, rock climbing, swimming, party? What are his interests?
It’s not just sensual, it’s mental as well.
When you know the answers to these questions, you can start to craft a strategy (sounds so bussinessy, lol) to make him want you.
It’s not about playing games or being manipulative. It’s about understanding what he wants and giving it to him in a genuine and fulfilling way.
For instance, if he has really hectic week at work, book him a massage. Or if he wanna try a new place to eat, book a table for you two!
When you do that, he’ll start chasing after you like there’s no tomorrow.
2. Pull out your naughty side
Be a little bit naughty. Tease him, tantalize him, and make him work for it.
Men love a challenge, and they love it even more when they know they can win you over. So don’t make things too easy for him. Be coy, be suggestive, and be downright flirtatious. And when he finally makes a move, let him know that you’re not one to be taken lightly.
And the fun fact is that it doesn’t take much to make a man get obsessed with you.
Move closer to him and then get away.
Look into his eyes and smile naughtily.
Ask him to smell your new perfume.
Grab his collar and pull him to you.
Send him a naughty message while you are hanging out with friends and family.
Poke him, tease him, swoon him.
Remember, the key to making him chase you is to ensure he knows you’re worth the chase.
3. flirt shamelessly
Being flirty is key when it comes to making a guy crazy about you. Now, I’m not talking about being a total slut —I’m talking about being playful, coy, and a little bit mysterious.
Men love a challenge, so make him work for your attention. Tease him, be playful with your words, and don’t give him everything he wants right away. Be a little bit elusive, and let him know that you’re not easy to get. Girl, he won’t be able to resist.
And when you do, give him a taste of what he’s been wanting. Make sure it’s worth his while, so don’t be shy! A light touch on the arm, a coy smile, or an innocent bat of the eyelashes can do wonders in getting him hooked. The more confident and flirty you are, the more he’ll want you.
Play hard to get, and then reward him with your charms once he’s earned it. He’ll be hooked in no time.
4. don’t always be available
You have to put yourself first. You can’t be constantly available to him and always bending over backward to please him. That’s not how this works.
If you want him to fall hard for you, then you have to show him that you’re worth hunting. And the easiest way to do that is by making yourself a priority. Don’t always be available when he texts or calls. Take some time for yourself, and do the things that make you happy. When he sees that you’re not at his beck and call, he’ll start to wonder what he’s missing out on. And that’s when the chase begins.
Be spontaneous and a little bit unpredictable. Do things that make you happy, even if they don’t necessarily make sense. Laugh, dance, and enjoy life! He’ll be drawn to your positive energy, and he’ll want to be around you more and more.
5. Dress like the goddess you are
You know that feeling when you see someone, and you just can’t take your eyes off them? You’re automatically intrigued by their confident demeanor and the way they carry themselves.
Well, you want to make your man feel that way. You want him to feel like he can’t take his eyes off you because when you’re looking your best, he’s going to want to chase you even harder.
So how do you do that?
By dressing to impress. When you’re putting together your outfit, think about what you want your man to see. If you want him to see your sexy side, show some skin. A cleavage always works! If you want him to see how smart and put-together you are, go for a more sophisticated look.
If your boss babe persona is what he loves, dress in a sexy power suit.
The end goal is to make him see things he’ll go crazy about! But also to dress for the occasion.
6. Make Him Really Work For Your Attention
Now, this is where things can get a little tricky. You want him to work for your attention, but you don’t want to make him feel like he’s put in too much effort.
So how do you walk that line?
It’s all about playing hard to get.
Now, I’m not saying become completely aloof and unresponsive – that’s just plain rude. But, by creating some distance and holding onto your sense of independence, you’ll pique his interest and make him want you even more.
Don’t text him back right away or agree to every date he asks you on. Show him that being with you is a privilege, not a given. Keep him on his toes and strive for a healthy balance of togetherness and alone time. Trust me – this strategy will have him sliding into your DMs in no time.
When you make him work for your attention, he’ll start to value it more. And the more he values it, the more he appreciates it, and the more he’ll want you.
It’s a simple slippery concept, but it works like a charm. The next time he reaches out, makes him put in a little extra effort to win you over. See how he responds. If he’s willing to do the work, you know he’s serious about you.
7. Get Lost in Your Own Life
You’ve probably heard the saying, “The best way to get someone to chase you is to get lost in your own life.” And it’s true. When you’re so busy and focused on your own life, you become a more interesting person. A person they wanna know. They are intrigued why are you not as interested in them as they are?
Men have this bizarre mentality where they want what they don’t have more than they truly want or what they do have.
You’re not constantly texting him or calling him, and you’re not always available. In fact, you might be hard to get ahold of. And he’ll start to wonder what’s going on. Why is she being so distant? What’s she up to? He’ll be thinking about this all day. And isn’t that our goal, really?
The more time he spends wondering about you, the more he’ll want to chase you. And before you know it, he’ll be hooked.
8. Be Mysterious, like a good puzzle
Men love a good mystery, so keep him guessing about what you’re thinking and feeling. Cloak your true intentions with a sense of mystery, and he’ll be dying to unravel your secrets. The more elusive you seem, the more he’ll want to chase you.
You want him to feel like he’s chasing you—like he’s trying to win you over. And the best way to do that is to keep the mystery alive.
So don’t always be available. Sometimes, act like you’re not interested at all. When he finally catches up to you, he’ll be so happy and relieved that he’s finally won you over. And he’ll be even more excited about the chase.
9. be a badass
Well, confidence is key. If you act like you don’t want him or you’re not interested, he’s going to lose interest fast.
But if you show him that you’re confident and in control, he’ll start to chase you. Be flirtatious, have fun, and let him know that you’re not just any girl. You’re the one he wants, and he’s going to have to work for it.
Make sure you stand out from the rest of the pack. Be unique, be yourself, and never stop flirting. When he sees how much fun you’re having, he’ll be hooked in no time.
10. Spice it up in the bedroom
If you believe me even 1%, I highly highly recommend you to start initiating sex. Guys go mad crazy for a little dominance. I’m sure they love doing the work but try taking the lead sometimes. Tell them in kinky ways you’re open to stuff (which you must first be comfortable with).
Grab his attention in a room full of people with a naughty text or flirty eye contact.
Take charge. Tell him that he’s good, maybe the best you ever had. Tell him how fu*king hot he is. Try a new position where you get to be on top of him.
Good sex can be a huge factor for your man to go head over heels crazy for you. But is it the only one?
With all the other ways combined with good sex, all I can say is that he’s in for trouble!
11. plan dates and evenings for him
But as I say. Even when it looks like men only want sex and nothing else, you clearly haven’t known the right ones.
Men are just the same emotional human beings as us, and they do like it when we take a moment to appreciate them and do romantic things for them. They see it, and what are you saying? They freakin’ deserve it for handling our huge tantrums.
When it comes to planning dates, it’s important to think outside the box. Sure, dinner and a movie are always classic go-to, but mixing it up will make your guy want you even more.
For example, surprise him with tickets to a concert or show that he’s been wanting to see. Planning a hike or other outdoor activity can be a fun way to break a sweat and bond over shared interests. And don’t underestimate the power of an at-home date night!
Cook him his favorite meal and throw on some cozy blankets for an intimate evening. The key is showing him that you’ve put thought and effort into making a date special for just the two of you – trust me, he’ll be itching for another one soon enough.
12. Let Him Chase You
You want him to be so obsessed with you that he can’t think of anything else, don’t you? Well, it’s also important to let him know that you’re not always going to be there waiting for him. If he knows that he’ll have to put in a little effort if he wants to see you, he’ll be more likely to try harder. Make him work for it, and he’ll be sure to appreciate it when he finally gets you.
There are a few things you can do to make that happen. First, let him come to you. Don’t be too available—keep him guessing a little bit. When he finally does catch up to you, make sure you’re playing hard to get. Be elusive, and don’t give away all your secrets at once.
If he knows exactly what’s going on, then the chase is going to lose its appeal. He needs to feel like he’s working for it and that he’s the only one who can make you happy. So make him work for your attention, and keep him guessing until the very end.
13. don’t be obsessed with him
As tempting as it may be to do whatever it takes to make a man want you bad, the key is to stay in control of yourself and your emotions. It’s easy to get caught up in the idea of “winning” someone’s affection, but letting yourself become too preoccupied with someone can actually have the opposite effect.
Plus, nobody wants to be with someone who is constantly checking in and obsessing over them. Instead, focus on being confident and happy with yourself and the rest will fall into place. Don’t be afraid to show your true colors or let him know what you want out of the relationship – just don’t put all of your eggs in one basket and keep living your life without letting him consume everything.
Trust me, he’ll want you even more if you play it cool instead of getting high-key obsessed.
14. make him laugh
I don’t know one man that doesn’t wanna laugh. Everyone loves a good chuckle.
And even when it seems that this may be a men’s department, sometimes the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but other times it’s through his funny bone.
Playing the role of a giggly airhead or putting on excessive makeup may attract some men, but why not go for the ones who appreciate your wit and humor?
Making a man laugh shows him that you are smart and confident enough to handle yourself in any situation, which automatically makes you more attractive.
So brush up on your one-liners and dad jokes because making him laugh can make him want you bad. And who knows, maybe he’ll even throw in a few laughs along the way too. After all, laughter is definitely a key ingredient in any successful relationship.
15. try to hang out with his friends and family
Well, one of the best ways to make him fall for you is to involve yourself with the important people in his life – his friends and family.
It shows him that he can bring you around the people who matter most to him, meaning you have earned their approval and trust. Plus, how a man introduces and speaks about you to his inner circle says a lot about how he sees you as a partner.
16. ask about how his day went
When it comes to relationships, so many of us focus on how we can make ourselves attractive and desirable to the opposite sex. But what if I told you that true desire comes from genuine care and concern?
If a man knows that you actually care about him as a person and not just for his looks or money, he’s going to be drawn to you like a moth to a flame. That kind of genuine interest is sexy AF.
For a change, try showing him how much you care and see him putting his guard down. If he can be vulnerable in front of you, it is a clear sign that he wants you super damn hard.
So forget about trying to “make” a man want you and instead shift your focus to genuinely caring about him. Trust me, he’ll be putty in your hands.
17. stay loyal AF
Okay, loyalty has to be the utmost thing in a relationship. And just like how important it is to us, women and men are no aliens.
But how do I show him that I am loyal without looking like a wannabe?
If you are at a party, go have a small talk with everyone. But come back and give a little extra time to your man. Be flirty, give him signs, find reasons to touch his arm, and be coy. But also don’t stick to him all party. Let him see that you are a chase and men want you.
18. take the initiative in bed & out
Babe, when it comes to being desired by a man, there’s nothing sexier than taking the lead in the bedroom. But did you know that this same concept applies to other areas of your life as well?
When a man sees that you aren’t afraid to take charge and make things happen, it not only turns him on but also shows him that you’re confident and independent.
And hey, why stop at the bedroom? Take charge of your career, relationships, and overall well-being. Not only will it make you irresistible to potential partners, but it’ll also make you feel damn good about yourself.
19. listen to him, pamper him
Giving the man in your life the attention he craves and catering to his every whim will make him fall head over heels for you. And trust me, it’s not just a clever saying – actions really do speak louder than words in this situation.
It’s Time to Put Your New Skills Into Practice!
So there you have it! If you want to win his heart and make a man want you badly with these 19 methods, then you need to put a little bit of your heart and soul into it. Much of getting him hooked is taking an active role in attracting him and getting him to invest his time and attention in you. Making him chase you means he has to be committed to what he is doing. He has to open new channels that can help him communicate with you.
Then when he does enter those channels, he will be already hooked because he has already started the chase for your love and attention. When all is said and done, following your heart is the key to achieving love and happiness.
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